I wish I knew these facts when I was young , it took me years of pain and healing to learn them. I want to share them hoping it can shed some light ….
1. A person will rip you to shreds for the mere fact that they don’t believe they are enough . So they will say anything they can to push you away , vomiting there brokenness onto you .
It’s not your job to prove them wrong or save them. It’s there job to get healed .
2. Don’t sleep with a man to find worthiness . Don’t act in such a way to get validation through sleeping with someone . If they love you , they will wait . If you don’t believe me , then you probably don’t believe you are enough . That is a fact . You have value .
3.A broken person will see you as themselves . They will never see you for who you are . They only know their trama . Walk away .
4.Do not stay with an addict . Unless they are in active recovery . Otherwise you are co dependent . Leave and get healing . They have a first love it will never be you
5.Some of the people in your life who are the most hateful to you are either jealous of you or in love with you so be kind . That’s a hard fact
6.Never mess with someone in a relationship. Cheating and lying is never true love . It’s all a facade
7. Do not date just to date . Date to marry . If you date to marry , you will wait . You will value your morals , yourself , and your time .
8. You are enough . You have to believe that . Always put God first .
