Path

it’s 5:30 am on a Saturday . I need to go running I need to find a second job I need I need I need the stress can be over whelming . I just been praying . Seems I’m always working especially for my little girl but I can never get a head . I need a vacation . I remember when me and my ex boyfriend Jerry we used to talk about buying land in the mountains and retiring there one day . It made me cry on the way home thinking about it . How that dream is gone . It made my heart full to have those dreams. What I would give to live in the mountains on a lake when I’m old . I’m learning to live in the joy of the moment . Every moment as my friend Malia says . To trust in God’s good purpose for my future and try to focus on right now is where I’ll find joy and find the blessings in that .

Amen .

What I Thought I Knew

It’s 9:48 pm it’s Thursday I just got in to town stopped to get a frozen yogurt I’m alone this weekend as I am most weekends. My life is consumed with work and gym . I thought I would be married by now or driving home into the arms of the love of my life but instead I’ll go home to run . It’s not that I hate my life it’s just not what I expected . For some reason I know I’m where I’m supposed to be but I feel restless . I never was the girl who needed attention or love I’m independent . But I’m ready to settle down but God’s saying not yet ? Why ? I’m 41 I’m not getting younger .

I remember clearly at 8 years old sitting on the toilet wondering how cool my life would be at 30. But here I am at 41 with much to report but yet I still go home to an empty house . It just ain’t right .

I’m to old for this . Is being alone my destiny ?

The Heart

I sat there you know 

Trying to find the answer to bring you home . 

I gave you every single thing I had 

Until I became nothing . 

Yet you said I was the selfish one . 

I forgave you a hundred times 

Maybe when you’re  in the dark your blind 

I couldn’t keep doing this 

I will always write these lines . 

Nothing changes . 

I’m praying for a sign 

But nothing . 

I deserve a better life . 

I lay in my bed alone 

Night after night 

Days upon days pass by . 

I’ve changed everything

In my life 

Except for your side of the bed 

And I ..... 

Gave every thing I had . 

We all have choices 

You chose everything else instead 

When It’s Hard

Before marriage was the last thing on my mind I was happy the way things were. Now I long to be settled down to be content . I been alone so long. I’m not lonely per say I just want the end part of my life . I’ve road the hard roads the roads no one should have to battle I been through things you would only see on terrible movies or the nightly news , I deserve the ring I never got , the wedding I never got , the proposal I never got . Or someone actually loving me what a concept more then themselves.

I pick selfish people . Now it’s my turn for the first time to be selfish and say I deserve this. I lived to make everyone happy to be used and destroyed and left here with deep wounds. I don’t regret the relationship it’s made with God and how he himself saved my life but I’m ready now .

But now it’s his purpose . I can’t move with out Gods will for me . What does God want for my life now? What is the next step ? I need help God in this time for you to fill my heart with love for you to take care of me and Raigan in everything we don’t have .

Please make this year a year of blessings and joy I’m so tired Lord give me rest . And bless those who have harmed us . Save those who are lost .

Ropes

Ropes . 

If I’m the cause why am I alone 

The train station is empty 

It’s half past the time and I’m left here 

I’m wearing your sweat shirt 

Time is paused as life keeps pushing forward . 

I’m stuck here in the shade of this good bye 

It’s raining under these eyes 

Black is the day 

Black is the night . 

I wasn’t born to live this way 

I deserve to have someone by my side 

I’m here alone writing these rhymes 

I dream of another kind of life 

I won’t stand here paralyzed 

Not for long 

You get my drift 

I bought my ticket 

Not sure when the next train is comin 

You had so many chances 

I don’t deserve a life like this 

I know you know this 

I know as you read this 

We all make our choices 

One pill 

One bottle 

And I 

Packed my bags 

It’s way past the time between where I will go and where I been . 

Maybe we can love and let go . 

Maybe you can fight a little harder 

But I shouldn’t be the one writing this 

It’s all on the table 

Every morning I pray over and over 

I’m paused as life pushes us forward 

But I bought my ticket 

Time is a ticking 

Isn’t it 

As hearts are breaking 

I deserve more then this 

-Amy Everett

waiting’

When is it time to let go. Is everything we do a waste or do we plant seeds. I’m 41 I want to
Settle down and my soul mate is an addict who has not yet recovered. How do I move on? I know I may wait forever for someone who doesn’t even love them self much less love me. I have separated myself in hopes for answers from God himself and pray for what Is meant whatever that is. And to heal a broken heart that my ex never even saw or appreciated because addicts are selfish and put themselves first . I love him but he has made a choice not to be better for himself or me. If my dream is to be married I’m not getting any younger I need to heal from this .

I’m not dating at all just waiting on God

Hope In

I say hope is a catapillar 

Waiting to be something. 

But yet I throw so many years 

Praying for things to change 

Gave you all

Cried every day 

But you spit in my face ? 

Sometimes the world tells us lies on both shoulders 

Why are you willing to listen 

I gave you it all 

Now I’m numb from the heart down 

Just trying to

Survive with you gone 

But you would rather do nothin 

 I say hope is a catapillar 

Waiting for her wings to open 

But I’m dying from your poison 

You would rather sit and do nothing 

I’m

Sitting

Here 

Waitin 

And when I find you 

You spit in my face 

As my arms are open . 

What was it all for . 

The world lies to us on both shoulders 

But you chose to

Accept it . 

I gave you everything

In return for your self hatred . 

I am the falling star 

You never caught it . 

I’m falling 

You can’t pay attention  

Direction

Direction

This is the time
When you think the light is shining
But yet it’s dark
And I’m all alone
But it’s the time
When I will push myself beyond the blurred lines .
How far can I go
Emotionally
How far can we get God it’s just you
And me .
How far can we take it running in the gym
Where can we push this physically
I’m not going to sleep on me

Maybe as I gather my bridges
As I write these lines
I don’t need anyone to condone this
Because I’m here to push this

To see where I can take it
Walk the path less taken
Heal this heart that’s been broken

Here I am God it’s me and it’s you
No ones pointing any fingers

We reap what we are sowin.

So let’s grasp this .
And change direction . - Amy Everett

Arrested

I remember the music we shared 

As you folded your laundry years ago 

I remember the lazy days we spent under the covers with nothin else to do 

But us me n you . 

You want to remember the bruises time left on our pillows leaving our beds wet 

But what I remember is the years of your fingerprints left on my skin

The kind you can’t remove when wet . 

Layers of time 

Painted on my soul 

Framed soul mate . 

It tells a tale 

From then 

To now . 

I remember watching you sleep 

I remember you saying good bye . 

I remember never letting you go . 

There’s a hallway in my eyes 

The world I see is you and me . 

It’s all I see . 

Never complete . 

I’ll sit here in this circle we call home

Waiting for the lights to come on . 

Sitting on this door step . 

Well well

Mark 11:24

For whatever you ask for in prayer you shall receive .


Well God will grant our prayers if we don’t have unforgiveness in our hearts and we have no sin so I have to ask for forgiveness seek him with all my heart and ask for things in his will . So my prayer life has gotten very very serious . So I been writing my prayers out . And on top of this it’s been holding me accountable to love my enemies, to forgive wrong doers and to be a good doer myself God is love and I have to reflect who God is . This means in my prayer time checking myself in order to ask for my own needs . This is where I’m at .

Hope

Letting go : 

Do we ever really let go of our soul mate? I think life can be tragic and maybe God is teaching us and maybe all we have is faith and I’m emotionally drained from letting go of the love of my life but is it letting go or just a pause in time . I know he isn’t on the path to be ready for a relationship and maybe he will someday but maybe he won’t only God has those answers . What I do know is that I can’t control it I can’t save it . All I can do is pray and keep my eyes focused up on Christ not ahead or behind me . It’s ok to love it’s ok to let go if it’s not healthy . But never give up hope 

Love and Losses

Life is messy so is love why can’t it be black and white? Why can’t we just have the one we love the one we fight for ? When you have them , they seem to slip through our fingers like sand and there’s nothing we can do . Nothing happens on accident . God has his permission on the bad and the good . But what is bad ? And if we have a teachable spirit we are more grounded but it still leaves me sad . 

I can ask why all day but I can’t change a thing. All I can do is pray for my loved one and have faith in my future that God knows best in everything even his timing . 

When I’m left wondering why I’m also left thanking God for a lesson in faith and salvation. I am Job he said . Job lost it all and in faith gained it back . I have to hope in God and keep going and honestly I’m emotionally exhausted . God renew my spirit . I’m a nice person . I try to give my whole heart I would give anything but sometimes love isn’t enough I can’t save anyone only God can . 

I pray for continual healing and a calm spirit . To remain in love with my God and see things for what they are . 

It’s not easy no . I cry I do . But I’m strong in my identity in Christ this is the difference 

Destiny (1)

Destiny -

It’s an empty vessel 

Full of direction 

Tell me your story 

I wear mine on these patches made of old stamps and letters never quite returned 

So here I am 

With hope 

It’s all I really got 

No one understands . 

Love is an empty bottle 

But figure this 

I may be an orphan 

But I’m not weak 

I may not have a home 

But I won’t lose 

Not this time . 

I always loved the rain 

He said . 

I can’t think of this 

As I look for light houses . 

- Amy Everett

tonight

Things that made sense no longer make sense at all . I know God wants to heal my heart so I’m just letting him. There is so much pain inside I’m ready to heal but I know it’s so fragile for me. I feel alone . No one is who they say they are . People have agendas not for you just for themselves. I sit here nothing is going right I’m just looking up at God asking why . I trust no one now . Does everyone lie to gain whatever their need is? Can anyone truly love? Or love me? I’m thinking the answer is no

How Love Goes

The most profound statement I ever heard in my entire life has been : The love you give is the love you keep.

If you want to know why your marriage or relationship isn’t working then invest in your partner. Not for your sake but for theirs. I never knew what love was until I decided to invest in someone. It’s so simple . If the only love you kept was what you gave what would you give? Because what we take with us is what we invest in the other person . That’s why selfish people don’t care. So invest and your love will grow . That’s why love is unconditional.

The Cure

It’s the breaking away of time 

In fragments . 

I find myself in the corner . 

Wondering how love like butterfly’s 

Never returns home . 

It’s some kind of destorted window pane 

Shards of color that cuts the iris 

Until we can’t see clearly 

We are left alone wondering 

Why . 

You left with all the pieces of me 

I’m left with the price . 

Here’s the change he said 

And spit on me . 

You see I’m not much 

But I give 

So here is this heart and my puffy red lips 

He laughs and says what is a man to do with this ? 

Don’t worry he just can’t see you

She said . 

New beginnings

Yesterday was a rough day I lost a friend who I thought was a best friend , I lost someone who I thought was close to me . My car died but the luck never changes . I’m moving finally I’m
Hoping this is a blessing . Where is my life going ?

date night

It’s half past 8 it’s Friday
Their are no dates
I have a million stories but I
Couldn’t tell you one where I been loved
The way I see those in the crowds
Hands tossed inside fingers smiles latched in circles
I am lost alone with empty promises
My hands lost in my face
There is nothing much I could say
Except that I’m home alone

Writing this story on a Friday night .

No ones ever loved me the way they said they did
No ones ever loved me the way I loved them

So who am I ,
An orphan ?

Maybe as I get lost in the crowd alone
Some one will grab my hand
And not let go
Maybe they will love my smile

But for now I write this letter
From an empty pillow
Wondering why

Addiction

Addiction -

It’s a needle

I’m the hay stack

There’s no arguing that
As I pass us in the hall
Watching us exchange old smiles
Can’t fake the love or old mistakes
Tattoo name sakes on right rib cage
No regrets as I cry alone on my pillow case

I didn’t lose out because we lost interest
But because of addiction
Seems like it was a Demon
Came like a thief
Stole the best of you and me .

So when they say I should be over it
When they say I dodged a bullet
Maybe there will be one part no one gets

That every thing we were will always stay frozen
You see because we didn’t leave because
We didn’t love each other
But we were torn like a broken frame from its picture .

But that’s addiction .

A pain that never stops hurting
A choice we can’t stop choosing .
All I’m asking now is for the healing
For the man who was stolen

From me . - Amy Everett

Loving

What to do when you feel so alone . It’s 9:30 on a Saturday night I’m home alone. Raigan is gone I could be out doing anything but instead I’m writing this. Depression has gotten the best of me for good reason . I’ve been let down and I’m no victim it’s just am I ok enough to be loved ? Why am I so lonely ? Why do the people who claim to love me lie. I think about how this could be my fault I’m
A nice person falling for bad people. So where is my person ? The one I’m meant to be with ?

Am I not pretty ? Not loveable ? I give up

News

Everybody wants til there’s nothin left 

Nothin left of me 

So tell me how I find the part 

Where someone wants to love me . 

It seems like an old revolution 

Where I put my heart in your pocket 

And they do what they want with it 

Tell me it’s my fault 

Walk with my Benifit 

So please explain to me . 

I travel

This world alone 

No one really knowing me 

I’m left alone at night 

You wonder how it gets the best of me 

Or why I keep writing the same thing 

Because no ones ever taken the time to love me . 

Love

It’s 5 am on a Sunday I have to get up to go running I haven’t in days I haven’t been feeling well. The topic loneliness. At 40 and being single I know I’m independent the only person I’ve been with is my ex we broke up in late December pretty recent so I have not dated in my healing mode I’ve become quite isolated I like my bubble I like being safe. A safe place where no one can hurt me it suits me for now. I do watch couples and families and I envy there love for each other but I’m just not brave enough not healed enough to venture out yet. I do realize time is passing by so quickly and where do you meet new people any way ? I’m a firm believer in real life connections not online dating I think it will come when it comes . My friends at work tease me and tell me I will die a cat lady this might be so but God has a plan. There is a season for every thing. Love myself first.

Value

Let me tell you a story . A woman walked by at work wearing a t shirt saying - chase this. The shirt in itself caught our attention and my fellow co worker Brian who has become a good friend looked at me and said, Amy that’s what you need to get .” I looked at him in confusion. I said,” get what ?” He said, “ self esteem “ as he walked away. His statement stayed with me as I drove home that night. Was Brian right. Was I sad every day over an ex boyfriend who treated me like garbage because I don’t see my value? Or was It because I truly loved him? I pondered this for hours. And why did I give so much power to people who tore me apart on the daily? If I saw my value would any thing matter. Because I’m worth being loved? 

Brian my friend had a point in the midst of the hustle and bustle of work he saw right through me. I don’t want to be 40 and single and not know what’s it’s like to be worth it and valuable and know it. 

Maybe it’s something I need to work on but thank you Brian for pointing it out. 

On my own

Pain slides past my eyes hidden behind brown flecks behind a masked sun 

There’s a white dress and red lips 

I can’t escape the memories 

Branded in my mind . 

I try to run away 

I try to write . 

But your there next to me every where I go 

Just like yesterday is today 

And I 

Can’t breathe 

I can’t change the pain you caused me 

I can’t change the way you left me 

I can’t change a thing 

So tell me as I sit here alone 

With you 

Our song on repeat 

The same tears falling day after day 

Me wearing the same mask 

And your old sweat shirt 

I can’t feel you 

I can’t smell you any more . 

But fuck 

I’m here in the crowd invisible 

I’m here in the crowd not one damn person sees me here 

But your next to me 

I’m the only one who sees you 

Smiling at me as you fade slowly 

I’m screaming alone in my car . 

Nothing changes 

As the sun rises 

The sun sets . 

I can’t change how you left 

How you didn’t love me the way you said you did 

But most of all I can’t change 

That I loved you the way I said I did . 

So here I am 

In this big fucking crowd alone 

I’m screaming 

I’m invisible 

No one saw me 

But you . 

And your so far away . 

I can’t change 

My white dress 

My brown eyes 

Or you the way your with me . 

So I run 

You didn’t love me 

I run 

You left me . 

I run 

I love you .

Apology

The apology I’ll never get I wish I got every word .

Dear J

What happens when it’s raining inside . 

Who have I become 

It’s the thoughts that run about 

The thoughtless . 

How far are we away from home 

When everyone seems like strangers 

Maybe I can’t sleep with out you 

As I watched you forget me . 

As you lost my hand 

In the crowd . 

As the night becomes day 

I’m alright I say . 

Just one last breath 

My heart will never beat 

The same way . 

It’s half past midnight 

I listen to our song play . 

I’m just another meaningless person 

And you are the ghost that haunts my days 

Someone save me . 

It’s raining on the inside 

Make no mistake 

I’ll make the world believe the sun is shining 

This is my greatest gift 

As I’m dying . 

As you lost my fingers in the crowd 

As night once again becomes day 

I tell myself I’m ok . 

As I drift away 

I drift away 

It’s half past midnight 

Our song plays 

I’m just a meaningless person 

And you are my today 

My yesterday 

My ghost . 

Someone please save me 

It’s raining in here . 

- Amy Everett

Drives

Its the rim of your hat 
On a sunny day 
Imagine your smile 
I never loved anyone more . 
I still cry just thinking of you 

I can’t imagine 
The way you lied to me 
Put me in a coffin
Tucked me away . 
Like nothing ever happened . 

Its unimaginable 
You were the love of my life 
Frozen back in time 
The way we held hands 
Like nothing could ever tear this thing apart . 
I believed that . 

I sit here writing this in a parking lot alone 
Maybe somethings we just don’t understand 

Maybe one day the pain will lessen 

My Life

At 40 my life is so boring because I’m working my ass off to become what I’ve always dreamed of becoming. I don’t get to sit at home and be lazy and not work but that’s never been me. I strive to be my very best all the time. I work 14 hour days I go to the gym on my lunch I walk all day I work hard I’m to tired to go out and any extra time I have is to be with my daughter . There is no white horse to come save me I have to do it myself . Unfortunately I’m single and the one I loved didn’t work out so my blinders are on and I’m focused . I’m pretty blessed though through all the pain every single person around me I’m touched with love and friendship and that is a blessing . I see God working through my hard days I just pray there not always so hard always bad luck. I hurt so much inside but I spend so much time in prayer . I know I’ve come through the desert . I’m tired of friends trying to set me up I know they have good intentions but I’m emotionally just done I’m so heart broken I am just waiting on God for this time of healing and restoration amen .

The world is a cold place . People are aweful for no reason they have no God because God is love . If someone does not treat you with love they are not with God period .

Sometimes with my heart issues I think how long do I even have to live I cherish my daughter every moment .

Gotta love big while we’re here . Ignore the crazy people there not worth it . People are sad and jealous . Pray for them . All we can do is have faith and keep moving forward .

Valentines

Since google is deleting all blog post on April 4th I’ll write until my blog is gone as well as everyone else with a blog . Valentines Day was never anything important to me any year I believe you should always be loving every day . It’s a gimmick we all know this . I think the part I hate is my loving friends with good intentions feel bad I’m single . I’m here to say it’s my choice trust me I need to be healing and it’s really not Gods timing right now. Last Valentines my love now ex love just completed a stint in rehab and he dropped of roses from a near by gas station I’m no snob trust me but I just knew something was wrong . Indeed he was using again and I knew him pretty well let’s just say I spent my Valentines alone in tears . I realize at 40 I made my own mistakes but I also need to heal from them . We don’t know all the time who we are going to love or the issues they will have but now I know what I need to heal in me . I definitely would love to be married and I have a sadness when I see couples shopping every day at work but it’s not my time and I’m very ok with that

I’m waiting on God. So for anyone alone on Valentines chin up .

I’m Not The Only One

I think about him every day. Did he just take advantage of me? He had to of.No one uses and lies to someone to such a degree with no remorse it’s not humanly possible then comes and goes with no conscience it’s almost a level or crazy. I loved the version of this person I thought was real but he sold me some lie . If it was real he would’ve got help but he didn’t . He abused me he knew I loved him more then life he never even apologized . Me a normal loving human can’t rationalize the thought process of a sick person I try every damn day to let it go I have to . I pray to . I think there is a healing process when you go through this process with an addict of such magnitude I never want anyone to come close to my heart ever again . I hide away my pain . I pray constantly . Maybe one day I’ll be in a place to help others but I am blessed to where even in sorrow I’ve found joy in daily things . In time maybe I’ll get Amy back . I think of him we had so many times together maybe those moments were real . Now there dead . But I’m just having faith for my future . Right now I’m just doing things that don’t necessarily use the heart like work hard at my job or my diet . But healing is something people need to take the time to do . Find the anchor in Christ . Not around your neck .

It’s friday night I need to go to the gym . Accomplish more goals !!! And remember I’m not alone

Love ❤️

It’s kind of crazy my blog is being erased I need to find away to update or back up all my stuff the past ten years but thank you to everyone who has followed me and supported me 30k readers. I’m working in San Marcos now I love love it . God has really stuck to his promises and I’m sticking with him healing from a bad break up a lost love and centering my life on Christ and my daughter at this point God tells me bits of where my future is going and then I see it happening but the rest is blind faith . It’s not always easy but God is my father he guides me through this journey let’s see what 2019 has I need rest for sure and Gods love .

Never Has

I’m left in the center 

Yellow lines mis understood and cut in the middle 

Grabbed my hand never let me go 

Playing on our radio 

As the tears streamed down your face 

Never had a love so strong he said as we drove into a night I never thought would end 

And I let you past my walls 

Farther then anyone . 

And my god your smile the way you looked back at me 

I knew I was in love . 

I knew you would never let go of me 

The way we fought 

To hold on . 

Then there was the day that letter had come 

You said good bye 

The day I found out you found someone else . 

Or the the night you begged me back 

But then you wouldn’t even kiss me good night 

Never would I imagine such a night mare 

Cuz ‘ baby I let you in farther then anyone ever got 

They say I never deserved This 

Maybe that’s true 

But what is a girl to do 

As I stand here alone dancing under the full moon where you left me here 

As our song plays 

Never let me go 

Now it’s a reminder 

That you only loved yourself 

And I can’t breathe any more 

And the memory of your smile 

Staring back at me 

And baby I loved you like I loved no one else 

My heart it no longer beats the same . 

I’m left in the center

Yellow lines under the full moon light 

Never had a love like this you said . 

As I stand here alone . 

Trying to forgive you 

Trying to forgive you 

For hurting me like no one ever has . 

Like no one ever has . 

Depression

It’s the cold temperature in the room
Hanging heads capture lost hearts
There is a war
It’s the acceptance of pain
Nothing will ever reach me again
I try to light a fire .

But the storm is washing me away
I’m here alone
Fighting my way out of this darkness
The small flicker of light
Digresses .....

Intermittent the room I’m sinking in
Like a boat lost at sea.
The way you salvaged me
Heart beating .

I’m broken buttons on a rare jacket
You left on your chair

It’s always cold in here
Has anyone met dispear

I’m in her prison
Begging for light .

Doing The Right Thing

It’s been a month since it all happened and still last night I had this awful nightmare. I used to hold on to the love I had knowing in the end we would be together now I’m left with this pain I can’t shake or make sense of . How do I do it I have no idea . My sister said I would feel fine if I knew my worth that’s not true I know my worth it does not discount that the person you loved hurts you in just about every way imaginable and walks away with a care. The people left in the wreckage with the big loving hearts just wanted love seems simple right . But maybe I chose someone who couldn’t love not even himself . I gave more then I ever had to make it work . I lay here now with a much new changing life I created through great strength and determination and a lot of faith in the Lord. I’m going run a marathon, I’m changing stores as of Monday and I’m moving hopefully soon but I know this is God’s plan . That’s the only thing I do know is that gods plan and purpose happen and if he wanted God to and me he would’ve sought help together .

Here I am alone . Figuring out how to heal . Praying a lot trying to find some kind of peace and joy
I have no desire to be with any man . None . Maybe I’m depressed maybe I know my focus needs to be on God and healing . Amen

Enough

It’s pretty serious you know the topic of enough. I’ll start here not sure how this will end so bear with me. It all adds up and ends up to equal nothing right . I have to say something because it’s wisdom no one ever told me years ago I never listened to or maybe never quite understood. I went to life course seminars , counseling and prayed a lot, this  but still it didn’t sink in . It took taking drugs , and eating disorders - being abused over and over and trading my worth for scars and still I didn’t get it. That I was enough . I sit here in jeans I wore when I was 24 there to big I lost so much weight but it’s not enough I strive to lose more . When my relationship didn’t work with my ex who was an addict I thought it was because I was not enough . When things don’t work out is it that we are not enough?

I’ve wasted years trying to prove to wrong people I’m enough . Have you ? Have you almost literally killed yourself proving to this empty world that you indeed are enough ? The world tells you these lies let me tell you Satan wants to rob you wait not rob you kill you,yes the Bible says kill. If it wasn’t for God’s grace I would be dead . Even so dead inside - do you feel dead on the inside ? Empty ? Because your chasing things of the world because you don’t feel like you are enough?

It’s a lie . God died for us saved us by his grace so we could have a hope and a future and the same God who made the heavens and the earth made you and the same God who made you stands before you and defeats all evil


Not only are you enough but you have power . I wanted to send a message of hope . If I can find hope in this dark world so can you . If God can change my life he can change yours .

Wins ❤️

Overall our society has become more selfish and self centered instead of more selfless and other centered . In whole we should always think win - win right that’s pretty obvious. But let’s take it step deeper what if we truly esteemed our relationships before ourselves ? Wouldn’t that be a concept ? To drop all your needs and give your lover there needs and vice versa. Did you know true love does not die ? So explain divorce ? Breakups ? And heart ache ? Selfishness is the core and the malnourishment of needs causes disconnection but love does not die . There is no such thing as falling out of love . God says so love unconditionally .

So what are the symptoms of disconnection? Think about it. What is your win - win today . I’m single today and will stay this way until God ordains a special someone who understands Gods character . No one is perfect but it’s the try.Right?So how can you win today .

it’s just a list

It’s Wednesday it’s raining and I’m on my lunch. Where would I rather be you ask. In Paris and in love laughing and traveling not in this parking lot so maybe I’ll put it on my bucket list . I once made a bucket list I did everything on it except go to England it was my number 1 thing . I was so impressed I finished my bucket list I wondered if I might die soon but I’m still here but there are things I’ve never had. A. Have someone love me B. Be proposed to. I’m 40 it seems like I’ve lost out on those things for good . I can’t say I’m ok with it . But there isn’t snyhing I can do about it either so maybe I’ll fly myself to Paris and England and by myself a ring . Ah eff it right. At least I love myself enough to not be with a loser asshole . So here I am in a parking lot on my lunch writing bucket list in the rain . So in the mean time I can’t give on myself because you guys will see me make it come true . Right now I’m going to drink some tea instead . Chow

The Next Mark

Maybe as we move forward and evolve the ones who stay the same stay behind us . We try to drag them with us because we love them we scream we cry we’re a bloody mess but in the end they are choosing to sit still . As we move forward we see the darkness close around them can’t they see it?

I think moving forward is hard not that I’m a victim but it’s acceptance. Acceptance to give up a dream I fought so hard for and believed in and lost . You know what I mean . We were so close.

I don’t know how to deal with the pain yet and that’s ok but what I do know is I’m pouring myself into other dreams right now to keep myself moving and staying focused on moving forward . I’ve learned this works for me . I’m fixing my credit , changing locations , my body is changing every day

 and next week I start with the best trainers around to really take myself to the whole next level. Sure these are outside things but I know my insides are different because I’m no longer settling to be treated poorly like before . I’m working every day to be closer to God trying hard not to sin. Trying to figure out what God wants and how to heal . This is where I’m at today. I’m sure 2019 will be about total healing process , moving , total over haul on my credit and I’ll be all I need for myself . When this happens I’ll be closer to more answers I won’t be as sad I hope . In this time of loss . I’m very aware of my feelings and where I am at . I just have to be patient in this process . I’ve matured as a woman and do not have room for bull shit . Just hard work of healing and working super hard on my goals . My head is down and I will persevere you know why ? Because I always do . I’m a great woman a strong woman .

Invisible

I sit in Barnes and Noble every day I notice no one does anyone notice me or care if I’m dead or alive

Sunrise

Although you are in the wake of your healing
You give everything and have not been loved back
Someone will love you Amy
Who deserves your love .

News Line

As 2019 approaches so does change like a tornado. Like devastation that cleared out all that I once knew and the only thing standing is the clear path God has set before me. If I didn’t take 2018 to just heal and get to know Jesus better I would be a lost boat at sea with no direction and no peace. But things are different now everything has changed and with God as my anchor I’m fine . I still feel pain and sorrow and anger but I also have peace and hope this is where the difference lies. Because I know whatever life brings I need to do Gods will and be upright and stay close to him and he will lead me down his path . For instance my boyfriend the love of my life my heart we tried to work it out he definitely was not walking on God’s path he did not have Gods peace in his life or we would be together. Instead there was dishonesty, and who knows what broke us apart . Even though I was devastated I know God has a bigger purpose for me . This is where peace comes from . I decided to follow my dream of living in San Diego I put in for a transfer after being sad and alone on Christmas Day . I thought God has a purpose for me my life is not finished . Be brave Amy . So I’m going to San Diego .

My best friend was demoted and transferred out of my store she was my rock the only person who understood my break up the one who has been here for me . Another devastation but God has a plan again peace in faith . Satan tried to take us down over and over . But God takes care of his people .

It’s about not believing Satan’s lies and being a victor not a victim ! Amen. I now read my bible on my lunch you can’t get rid of old lies with out putting in new truths . All I want is to be close to
God . I found this picture of Raigan . It reminds me of how fast time flies !!! Joy comes from the Lord we have to seek him to have it to have hope .

Amen

Here

It’s an old telegram 

Ink is smudged I’m not sure if there’s a stamp 

Your mouth 

Your mouth is poison

I’m not sure what happened between today 

And when we danced in the street . 

You once told me you loved me only yesterday I was the girl you dreamed of 

And today I lie here alone staring at the night sky on our old street where you promised to never say good bye. 

I say I love you 

But I don’t know you any more 

As I let you go 

As you said good bye . 

I couldn’t write the words if I wanted to 

I always thought I could 

About how you said 

You would never let me go 

As you pushed me out of sight 

Maybe 

Your mouth is poison . 

And I couldn’t write the story if I wanted to 

Remember the nights you couldn’t 

Fall asleep with out me . 

It’s an old telegram 

Written to a stranger 

As I lay here under the night sky 

Listening as the cars pass by 

Remember how you kissed me good night 

How did you leave me here 

To become a stranger 

Alone at our funeral . 

Maybe your mouth is poison 

Maybe I’ll always be here 

Right here 

Under the street lights 

Where you left me

Straight Jacket

I’m lost and forgotten
Invisible little girl in the corner
You had something better to do

I’m just a shelf
A dusty shelf
I’m just an old song
You pass by
I was something you hung up and took down
When you felt like .

Used
Alone .

I gave you all
You pushed me away

I sit here in the dark
You always come to steal from me
Then you go
Promising me
Promising me
You won’t
It’s different now
It’s duffernt now !!!!!!!

Trust me you say
Trust me !!!!!

I let you in .
Then you go .